Monday, July 14, 2008

Difference Between Universities Student and College Student

Yeah ! Finally got the time to blog ! Been busy this few weeks with whole pile of assignments and test . Now , i already finished my design assignment , advertising assignment , mass comm assignment , hubungan etnik assignment and it assignment . And i also have gone through many mid-term test di. Finally , can relax for few days , as this friday i got I.T test ! Got to start study . Good luck to all my classmates and coursemates who going to take this exam ! Gambateh! =)

Okey , back to my topic today , the differences between a universities student and college student . Okey , as i study at UTAR before , i have an experience to be a university student . And now i being a college student , i found out many differences between college student and universities student. The differences are as below :

i) The universities student is more matured than the college student .
ii) The universities student is more disciplined than the college student
iii)The universities student will be more 'kan cheong' about the upcoming test and assignment .

Okey , that's the differences . I got to go . Got class on 10 pm . Have a nice day!

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Meaningful and Interesting Article

This is an article that i read from my friend , Samantha's blog .. Hope you all will get some knowledge and benefits from it... I have learn something from it ..

1. Avoid Gossipmongers.
Ancient Jewish sages said, "Gossip kills three: the teller, the listener, and the subject." The damage spreads like wildfire, with chronic tale-bearers ultimately becoming negative, someone others mistrust. The gossip victim's reputation is sullied, often unfairly. And the Talmud says that the listener is most damaged of all, because he alone had the power to turn away or change the subject, helping to stop the defamation of a third party. Remember, they don't call gossip "dirt" for nothing.

2. Talk About Ideas, Not People.
Talking about ideas can elevate, educate and stimulate, but talking about people easily becomes "lashon harah," literally, "bad talk" in Hebrew. Once you are discussing "Mary," it's just too easy to start judging her outfit, her last boyfriend, her tendency to wear too much perfume. Speaking poorly of others can make us smug and self-satisfied, and less inclined to focus on improving ourselves.

3. Think Before You Speak.
We are so eager to talk that we often forget to ask ourselves: Who will benefit from what I am going to say? Could somebody's feelings be hurt, or their self-esteem damaged, if I make this comment or observation? Ask yourself these questions and you may save others pain through needlessly hurtful words.

4. Use Your Words and Your Smile to Uplift Others.
Even confident people carry some feelings of self-doubt or worries about their family, relationships, or work. Look for opportunities to share a kind word or compliment not only with family and friends, but with store clerks, parking attendants, and others whom you meet during the day. Your kind words and your smile just might make someone else's day.

5. Truth Is No Excuse.
Even if gossip is true, such as that your neighbor is about to lose her job, don't spread the news. In most cases, it probably isn't your business anyway. Just as important, we need to practice verbal self-restraint and fight the human tendency to take satisfaction in peddling news about another's misfortune.

6. Judge Others Favorably.
Look for the good in other people, even when it's difficult. Perhaps they are going through a difficult personal challenge, or just had a bad day. This will make it less likely that you will gossip about them after a negative interaction.

7. Don't Badmouth Yourself, Either.
Jewish wisdom teaches that in addition to not slandering others, we must not slander ourselves either. Mild self-deprecation is one thing, but broadcasting your shortcomings or slamming yourself verbally may lead to feelings of self-loathing. Your negativity may also make others avoid you. Use your awareness of your weakness as a stimulus for growth, and tell yourself that you can and will do better, one day at a time.

8. Change the Subject When Gossip Begins.
Whipping out your family photos or looking for the earliest opportunity to change the subject may derail the gossip train. And even if the gossiper finds a more willing ear elsewhere, at least you won't have been an accomplice. Stuck listening to gossip with no visible means of escape? Don't criticize the gossiper; just try to suggest a happier topic as soon as possible.

9. Share Bad News Only If You Must.
Sometimes you must share negative reports with others if the stakes are high enough: the Torah condones sharing what you know about another person if it involves a potential marriage or business partner. But you must be certain of your facts, not exaggerate, and have the other person's best interests at heart.

10. Be Careful With Praise.
Praising the beauty of a friend's new diamond necklace in front of a third party who could not afford such a thing could easily create feelings of envy and resentment. Congratulating a new mother on her baby can bring tremendous pain if said in front of a childless couple. Look around before you lavish praise or congratulations. Others are listening.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

IF

IF I never study at UTAR before, i wont know and have a group of awsome and great friend.
IF i never study at UTAR before, i will not be trained as university or college student.
If i never study at UTAR before , i will not be matured as who i am now.
IF i never studyat UTAR before , I will not be disciplined as who i am now.
IF i never study at UTAR before , i will not have the chance to become a committee and organised the welcome Freshmen concert of utar (It's a big UTAR programme).
IF i never study at UTAR before , i wont know many new great , and fun friends from my Welcome Freshmen concert committee.
This is the IF post. So the conclusion is i never regret studying at UTAr and now changing course to TARC .Although i may waste time and money , BUT i already earn plenty of friendship and experience during my study at UTAR . I will keep all the memories in my mind . Hehe =)

A Short Update of me

Okey , i had not update my blog long long time. Let me tell you the reason :
1.I just shifted to my new house last last week, so is still messy , and i'm just settle down.
2. My house got telephone line , but the TM say my new house telephone line got problem . So , need to wait for 2 more month only can fixed the telephone line!!! What the h***!
3.So , without telephone line , i cannot transfer my streamyx from my old house to new house.Conclusion is i cannot use internet for this two month at home !
4. I'm busy with my assignment and test nowadays.
Okey , my mum now always go complain the TM, coz they promised us that we just need to await for few days only then can use telephone and streamyx di! but the TM officer keep saying we need to wait for 2 month now. And we must terminated the streamyx. If not , the streamyx monthly bill will still come, and we need to pay the service. But if we terminate , we need to pay for the installation fee again when we register once more , the fee is so expensive and not worth it la. I need innternet to do research for my assignment! So , i need to go to the internet cafe near my new house, it charge RM5 for 3 hour, luckily it quite reasonable.

You sure wonder why i so free blogging here in this time. At first , i'm supposed to having my assignment discussion now , but they suddenly can't turn up for the discussion. Actually is 1 of them cannot attend only as she not feeling well, but the other 2 member also doesn't want to come also. They say nothing else to discuss. But actually we got plenty thing to discus le! Then we need to find another day discuss again! This is what i had expected! they 3 are repeat student ma! So , i and my friend ,which is also 1 of my assignment group member come to Computer lab , after they suddenly say they cant come for the discussion . So i'm blogging now at TARC as my next class start on 2pm. A little bit moody now =(

Okey , i got two test on next wednesday . Two test on the same day . I will blog less for this two month as i dont have internet acess at home yet . ~Chaoz~